Adolescent
problems
I)
introduction
Many adolescents today have problems and are getting into
trouble. After all, there are a lot of pressures for kids to deal with among
friends and family. For some youth, pressures include poverty, violence,
parental problems, and gangs. Kids may also be concerned about significant
issues such as religion, gender roles, values, or ethnicity. Some children are
having difficulty dealing with past traumas they have experienced, like abuse.
Parents and their teenagers are struggling between the youth's wanting independence
while still needing parental guidance. Sometimes all these conflicts result in
behavior problems.
Any number of isolated behavior problems can represent adolescent problems and delinquency-shoplifting, truancy, a fight in school, drug or alcohol ingestion. Sometimes, kids can't easily explain why they act the way they do. They may be just as confused about it as the adults, or they simply see delinquent behaviors as appropriate ways to deal with what they experience. Parents and loved ones may feel scared, angry, frustrated, or hopeless. They may feel guilty and wonder where they went wrong. All these feelings are normal, but it is important to understand that there is help available to troubled kids and their families.
Any number of isolated behavior problems can represent adolescent problems and delinquency-shoplifting, truancy, a fight in school, drug or alcohol ingestion. Sometimes, kids can't easily explain why they act the way they do. They may be just as confused about it as the adults, or they simply see delinquent behaviors as appropriate ways to deal with what they experience. Parents and loved ones may feel scared, angry, frustrated, or hopeless. They may feel guilty and wonder where they went wrong. All these feelings are normal, but it is important to understand that there is help available to troubled kids and their families.
II)
School Problems in Adolescents
School constitutes a
large part of an adolescent’s existence. Difficulties in almost any area of
life often manifest as school problems.
Particular school problems include
Fear of going to school
Absenteeism without permission (truancy)
Dropping out
Academic underachievement
Between 1% and 5% of
adolescents develop fear of going to school. This fear may be generalized or
related to a particular person (a teacher or another student—see Bullying) or event at school (such as physical
education class). The adolescent may develop physical symptoms, such as
abdominal pain, or may simply refuse to go to school. School personnel and
family members should identify the reason, if any, for the fear and encourage
the adolescent to attend school.
Adolescents who are
repeatedly truant or drop out of school have made a conscious decision to miss
school. These adolescents generally have poor academic achievement and have had
little success in or satisfaction from school-related activities. They often
have engaged in high-risk behaviors, such as having unprotected sex, taking
drugs, and engaging in violence.
Adolescents at risk of
dropping out should be made aware of other educational options, such as
vocational training, graduate equivalent degrees, and alternative programs.
III)
Behavioral Problems in Adolescents
adolescence is a time for developing independence.
Typically, adolescents exercise their independence by questioning and sometimes
breaking rules. Parents and doctors must distinguish occasional errors of
judgment from a degree of misbehavior that requires professional intervention.
The severity and frequency of infractions are guides. For example, regular
drinking, frequent episodes of fighting, truancy, and theft are much more
significant than isolated episodes of the same activities. Other warning signs
include deterioration of performance at school and running away from home. Of
particular concern are adolescents who cause serious injury or use a weapon in
a fight.
Children occasionally engage in physical
confrontation. During adolescence, the frequency and severity of violent
interactions may increase. Although episodes of violence at school are highly
publicized, adolescents are much more likely to be involved in violent episodes
(or more often the threat of violence) at home and outside of school. Many
factors contribute to an increased risk of violence for adolescents, including
Gang
membership
Access
to firearms
Substance
use
Poverty
There is little evidence to suggest a relationship
between violence and genetic defects or chromosomal abnormalities.
Because adolescents are much more independent and
mobile than they were as children, they are often out of the direct physical
control of adults. In these circumstances, adolescents' behavior is determined
by their own moral and behavioral code. Parents guide rather than directly
control the adolescents' actions. Adolescents who feel warmth and support from
their parents are less likely to engage in risky behaviors. Also, adolescents
whose parents convey clear expectations regarding their children’s behavior and
show consistent limit setting and monitoring are less likely to engage in risky
behaviors. Authoritative parenting is a parenting style in which children
participate in establishing family expectations and rules. This parenting
style, as opposed to harsh or permissive parenting, is most likely to promote
mature behaviors.
Authoritative parenting typically
uses a system of graduated privileges, in which adolescents initially are given
small bits of responsibility and freedom (such as caring for a pet, doing
household chores, picking out clothing, or decorating their room). If
adolescents handle this responsibility well over a period of time, more
responsibilities and more privileges (such as going out with friends without
parents, and driving) are granted. By contrast, poor judgment or lack of
responsibility leads to loss of privileges. Each new privilege requires close
monitoring by parents to make sure adolescents comply with the agreed-upon
rules.
Some parents and their adolescents clash over almost everything.
In these situations, the core issue is really control. Adolescents want to feel
in control of their life, and parents want adolescents to know the parents
still make the rules. In these situations, everyone may benefit from the
parents picking their battles and focusing their efforts on the adolescents’
actions (such as attending school and complying with household
responsibilities) rather than on expressions (such as dress, hairstyle, and
preferred entertainment).
Adolescents whose behavior is dangerous or otherwise
unacceptable despite their parents' best efforts may need professional
intervention. Substance use is a common trigger of behavioral problems, and
substance use disorders require specific treatment. Behavioral problems also
may be a symptom of learning disabilities, depression, or other mental health
disorders. Such disorders typically require counseling and mental health
disorders often also require treatment with drugs. If parents are not able to
limit an adolescent’s dangerous behavior, they may request help from the court
system and be assigned to a probation officer who can help enforce reasonable
household rules.
IV)
Overview of Psychosocial Problems in Adolescents
Psychologic and social problems, particularly involving behavior and
school issues, are more common during adolescence than at any other time during
childhood. Adolescents are much more independent and mobile and are often out
of the direct control of adults. When misbehavior becomes severe and frequent,
adolescents should be evaluated for a psychosocial disorder by a mental health
professional. In particular, depression, anxiety, and eating disorders are
common during adolescence. Adolescents who have psychosocial problems, anxiety,
or depression may have physical symptoms such as fatigue or chronic fatigue,
dizziness, headache, and abdominal or chest pain.
Depression is common among adolescents, and
doctors actively screen for it during examinations (see Depression
in Children and Adolescents). Suicide (see Suicidal
Behavior in Children and Adolescents) is rare, but thoughts about
suicide (called suicidal ideation) are more common. Suicidal ideation may go
unnoticed, but, once it is noticed, the adolescent should receive a mental
health evaluation.
Anxiety often manifests during adolescence (see Overview
of Anxiety Disorders in Children), as do mood disorders and
disruptive behavioral disorders such as oppositional defiant disorder (see Oppositional
Defiant Disorder) and conduct disorder (see Conduct
Disorder). Thought disorders (called psychosis—see also Childhood
Schizophrenia) most commonly begin during adolescence or early
adulthood. The first episode of psychosis is called a psychotic break.
Eating disorders, especially in girls, are common (see Definition
of Eating Disorders). Some adolescents go to extraordinary lengths
to hide symptoms of an eating disorder.
V)
Adolescent Substance Abuse
Being a teenager and raising a teenager are individually, and
collectively, enormous challenges. For many teens, illicit substance use and
abuse become part of the landscape of their teenage years. Although most
adolescents who use drugs do not progress to become drug abusers, or drug
addicts in adulthood, drug use in adolescence is a very risky proposition. Even
small degrees of substance abuse (for example, alcohol, marijuana, and
inhalants) can have negative consequences. Typically, school and relationships,
notably family relationships, are among the life areas that are most influenced
by drug use and abuse. One of the most telling signs of a teen's increasing
involvement with drugs is when drug use becomes part of the teen's daily life.
Preoccupation with drugs can crowd out previously important activities, and the
manner in which the teen views him or her self may change in unrealistic and
inaccurate directions. Friendship groups may change, sometimes dramatically,
and relationships with family members can become more distant or conflictual.
Further bad signs include more frequent use or use of greater amounts of a
certain drug, or use of more dangerous drugs, such as cocaine, amphetamines, or
heroin. Persistent patterns of drug use in adolescence are a sign that problems
in that teen's environment exist and need to be addressed immediately.
What causes adolescent substance abuse?
There is no single cause of adolescent drug problems. Drug abuse develops over time; it does not start as full-blown abuse or addiction. There are different pathways or routes to the development of a teen's drug problems.
What causes adolescent substance abuse?
There is no single cause of adolescent drug problems. Drug abuse develops over time; it does not start as full-blown abuse or addiction. There are different pathways or routes to the development of a teen's drug problems.
Some
of the factors that may place teens at risk for developing drug problems
include:
insufficient
parental supervision and monitoring
lack
of communication and interaction between parents and kids
poorly
defined and poorly communicated rules and expectations against drug use
inconsistent
and excessively severe discipline
family
conflict
favorable
parental attitudes toward adolescent alcohol and drug use, and parental
alcoholism or drug use
It
is also important to also pay attention to individual risk factors, including:
high
sensation seeking
impulsiveness
psychological
distress
difficulty
maintaining emotional stability
perceptions
of extensive use by peers
IV) How can I help
my teen avoid substance abuse?
Parents and guardians need
to be aware of the power they have to influence the development of their kids
throughout the teenage years. Adolescence brings a new and dramatic stage to
family life. The changes that are required are not just the teen's to make;
parents need to change their relationship with their teenager. It is best if
parents are proactive about the challenges of this life cycle stage,
particularly those that pertain to the possibility of experimenting with and
using alcohol and drugs. Parents cannot be afraid to talk directly to their
kids about drug use, even if they have had problems with drugs or alcohol
themselves. An excellent resource on how to talk to kids about drugs is Parents
- The Anti-Drug (www.theantidrug.com). Parents are encouraged to give clear,
no-use messages about smoking, drugs, and alcohol. It is important for kids and
teens to understand that the rules and expectations set by parents are based on
parental love and concern for their well being. Parents should also be actively
involved and demonstrate interest in their teen's friends and social
activities. Spending quality time with teens and setting good examples are
essential. Even if problems such as substance abuse already exist in the teen's
life, parents and families can still have a positive influence on their teen's
behavior.
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